I realized recently that I’M A HOUSEWIFE. Yet, we don’t use that term any longer. Why? Now, we are all SAHMs (stay-at-home mothers) but really what is the difference? Why has the word “Housewife” suddenly become taboo, a slur, a derogatory comment on a woman’s occupation? I was born in 1970, just early enough to still feel the sting of the ERA. My “Glamour” magazine was filled with articles about earning equal pay, fighting your way up the corporate ladder, and gaining independence as a woman. I was proud to be part of a gender that had options. I could work, not work, have kids, not have kids – the world was open to me.

I am lucky to be part of a generation of educated, strong women who have CHOSEN to walk away from amazing careers to be at home with their kids. The result of this are the interesting blogs we all write, read and contribute to – we have created a new community of motherhood that will be a testimony to our generation. I don’t feel marginalized by other mothers who work or by men who work. I’ve been on both sides of the fence and I recognize that some women are no more cut out to stay home with their kids then some men.

And yet, don’t we all still feel the need to do SOMETHING else besides being a mother? We craft, or sew, or work in charity, or write, or something. Does that come from our desire to be defined by more than just motherhood? Or is it our desire to satisfy the need that we are contributing to our home in a way that is greater than raising the next generation of leaders?

So I present you with a quiz — Are you a 1930’s housewife? A 2000 SAHM? Or just an all around bad-ass?

55 As a 1930s wife, I am Average Take the test!